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  • On My Writerly Bookshelf

    On My Writerly Bookshelf

    The premise behind The Writer’s Guide to Psychology by Carolyn Kaufman is brilliant. I don’t know about you, but my psychology background consists of three university courses: introduction to psychology, abnormal psychology, and social psychology. And when I took them, it wasn’t because I wanted to be a writer. I might have taken better notes had I know I’d eventually be one.

    As the second part of the super long title indicates (How to Write Accurately About Psychological Disorders, Clinical Treatment and Human Behavior), this book is perfect for anyone who’s writing a novel. Okay, maybe the title doesn’t actually show that, but it’s true. In chapter two (Why People Do What They Do), Carolyn discusses the different therapist stereotypes portrayed in films and novels. She then goes into the five different therapy orientations (e.g. psychodynamic therapy) and describes how each would be used to help a client overcome whatever issues he’s dealing with. But she takes it one step further by explaining how each therapy can help you understand your character (even if your character doesn’t require therapy).

    Another benefit of the book is that Carolyn explains the realities of therapy, and helps you create realistic scenes in which your main character is either receiving therapy or conducting a therapy session. Again, novels, TV shows, and movies often misrepresent this, so it’s not a good idea to use them as a guide when you write your story.

    Carolyn also describes the difference between someone who needs therapy to help them deal with some aspect of their life verses someone who has a diagnosable disorder. A large chunk of the book then covers the different disorders, including:

    • Mood, anxiety, and psychotic disorders
    • Childhood disorders (autistic spectrum disorder, ADHD, conduct disorder)
    • Dementia
    • Eating disorders
    • Post traumatic stress disorder
    • Dissociation
    • Personality disorders

    And let’s not forget the chapter on psychopaths and villains. Here you get insights into what makes a psychopath and how to makes yours believable. This also includes the corporate psychopath, the individual who’s hungry for power. And finally, there’s a chapter on drugs and treatments, such as electroconvulsive therapy, and one on emergencies in psychotherapy (suicidality, homicidality, and hospitalization).

    The idea behind the book is to help you avoid making the same mistakes so many lay writers make when writing a novel that requires some insight into psychology or therapy. Throughout the book, there are little tidbits called “Don’t Let This Happen To You” that will help you avoid the mistakes that will weaken the credibility of your writing. Plus, Carolyn has a great suggestion in chapter one for coming up with plot ideas. I’m not going to tell you what it is, though. You have to read the book.

    Overall, I’m thrilled that I bought the book. It’s open me to a huge range of plot ideas for future projects. You’ve got to love a book that can do that.

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    I’m blogging today on the Query Tracker blog on Deepening Your Character’s Needs

  • Teenagers in the Mist: Part II

    Teenagers in the Mist: Part II

    I hadn’t planned to blog today, but after the great comments on yesterday’s post, I wanted to add an important point.

    Now, obviously yesterday's post was part humor and part truth. A number of the tips came from the social psychology, developmental psychology, and research methodology courses I took during my undergrad and graduate studies.

    But as many of you pointed out, OBSERVATION of teenagers (or whatever group you’re researching) ISN'T ENOUGH. You want to spend time with them, too.

    If you don’t have teenagers living with you, or nephews and nieces (Hey, at least my brother was good for something), then try VOLUNTEERING through a community program (e.g. church, library, community center, YMCA). You won’t be sorry, and maybe you can help ENRICH a teen’s life. And seriously, isn’t that what we YA writers are striving for in the first place? To REACH OUT and make a difference in a teen’s life, even if it's just a small difference.

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  • Always Do Things That Scare You Blogfest

    Always Do Things That Scare You Blogfest

    To celebrate the release of her New Adult novel (which is awesome, btw), Mila Ferrera is doing a blogfest today. This is your chance to post about a time that you decided to do something even though it scared you, either to get over that fear or because you knew it would be good for you.

    While I was in university, I had the opportunity to work overseas in Finland for the summer. I was excited and also scared. My mother’s side of the family lives there, and I would be staying with my grandparents. They didn’t speak English. I barely spoke any Finnish. It meant figuring things out on my own since my grandparents couldn’t help me. And it meant traveling everyday from Vantaa to Helsinki for my job (cleaning staff in a recreational facility for the elderly).

    There were a few situations where I got myself into trouble. Like when I disembarked the train at the wrong stop late at night and had to figure my way back to my grandparents’ apartment. I’m still not sure how I found my way home. I swear it was completely by accident. But the over all experience was worth it and it gave me the self confidence I needed. I traveled to Lapland and Saint Petersburg on my own that summer, and I returned a few years later to spend a semester in central Finland during grad school. Now I have all kinds of experiences I can write about in my NA novels.

    Did you do anything in university that scared you but you knew would be good for you?

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    Nessa Cavanaugh, psychology student, knows how to stay on an even keel. Despite the urging of her mother and her academic advisor to get a life and have some fun, “all work and no play” sums up her plan to survive her grueling internship year at a children's hospital. She doesn't want to end up like her father, whose constant ups and downs broke her family, and avoiding unnecessary emotional entanglements is a must.

    Then she (literally) runs into Dr. Aron Lindstrom in the middle of her disastrous first day on the job. The attraction is instant—and terrifying. Nessa knows she should stay away—especially when she finds out he has a reputation for being a player—but Aron is brilliant, intense, and as sexy as they come. When he challenges her to take a chance on him, her plans to stay focused on work start to crumble.

    But what begins as passion takes on a dangerous edge, becoming an emotional roller coaster that’s frighteningly familiar. As things spiral out of control, Nessa must decide whether she should hold on for the ride or run … even if it means leaving her heart behind.

  • A Song of the Righteous

    A Song of the Righteous

    I'm so excited! My good friend Kathi-Ann graciously heeded the call I posted a few weeks ago for a guest poster while I worked on the Bible Study. I'm so glad she did. I think she did a wonderful job... enough of my blabbing. Here is Kathi-Ann...

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    I’ve never done this guest posting thing before, so I’m not sure how to start out. I guess I can share a little bit about myself. I’m a single mother of two (Bud, 8 and Boo, 4) and a student. I’m a year (or so) away from my bachelors in psychology. I’ve got two blogs, one (for lack of a better word) is a cooking blog, and the other was inspired by Kelly and is a religious blog. My religious background, I don’t know how different I am from Kelly’s normal readership, but I’m LDS. Oh, and I love to sing. And that is what I’ve elected to write about.

    There’s a scripture in my church, something that almost everyone knows, certainly by the time they are out of high school. To paraphrase “A song of the righteous is a prayer unto me” and church is always full of songs. OK, so most of the people there are picking out the melody and barley hitting the right notes, but you can still fell the spirit.

    Kids sing all the time, including mine. They love it. They spend half an hour (give or take) on Sunday just learning songs and the meanings behind them. My kids learn a lot of songs that I knew when I was a kid and I love to sing with them. One of them is just a simple song about reading the scriptures, and recently my daughter (the 4 year old) has been singing it. I love that song, I have since I started singing it when I was a kid.

    It’s a lovely song to have in your head. The tune is catchy and the message is beautiful.

    I love to read the Holy Scriptures, And, every time I do, I feel the Spirit start to grow within my heart— A testimony that they’re true. Search, ponder, and pray Are the things that I must do. The Spirit will guide, and, deep inside, I’ll know the scriptures are true. So, prayerfully I’ll read the scriptures Each day my whole life through. I’ll come to understand. I’ll heed the Lord’s command And live as he would have me do. Search, ponder, and pray Are the things that I must do. The Spirit will guide, and, deep inside, I’ll know the scriptures are true. “Search, Ponder, and Pray” Jaclyn Thomas Milne and Carol Baker Black
    My son doesn’t like to admit it, but he loves the songs to, and when Boo and I are singing he’ll join in…until I look at him, then he pretends that he’s annoyed.

    There is one more thing I’d like to share. I’m in a community choir in the town I live, unique I think, in that we don’t sing religious pieces to show off our skill, but we sing them to bring others closer to Christ.

    
    This is us at our practice tonight (doesn’t my cell phone take amazing pictures). Our director (the guy standing in front…it’s kind of hard to tell) loves to have us sing spirituals. You know, like traditional gospel music like you’d find in the south. I think this is hilarious. I think, in the 200 some odd people we’ve got in the choir, two of them have some sort of rhythm to them. And those people are the pianist and the director. They try but we are about the sorriest bunch of white people you’ve ever seen trying to sing songs like “Go Down Moses” and “Goin’ Up to Glory”. Our attempts are usually laughable at best, but on the night of our concerts something amazing happens.

    No, we don’t manage to pull out of ourselves some as yet unknown ability to sing the music the way it was intended. We are still just a bunch of uncoordinated southern Utahans’ who don’t seem to know any better. But as we stand on that stage, singing about trying to get to the Promised Land and trying to find God there’s a transformation.

    It’s no longer about if we can sing the music as it was written, or as another choir would sing, it’s about God and spreading the message of love and joy that He shares with all of us.

    As I was standing at practice tonight, in a hall as old as our town with a broken air conditioner in 108 degree weather, I started to cry. I could feel the spirit surrounding us. It wasn’t even a concert and He was there with us.

    The song we were singing was “On Jordan’s Story Banks” (arranged by Howard Helvey) and the line…well, it wasn’t just one. It was the whole thing.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-zksaadkd4

    Just the whole song, just…I don’t know how to adequately explain the feeling I get when I sing this song. The choir in the above video sings it at a faster clip than we do. My director takes it at a flowing place, the transitions are harder…not the right word, but it works, and the sprit that comes from it is amazing.

    I know that I’m going to ‘go home’ one day and that I am sharing that message.
    So, there was a point to this long post that Kelly has been gracious enough to let me share with you all, and that is to sing. Always.

    Keep a song in our heart and he will always be with you. Another song that I sang when I was a child was “Hum Your Favorite Hymn” and basically said that if you ever have to chase away bad thoughts that you should just think of your favorite hymn. I’ll be honest, I still do this today. Sometimes it’s just “Hum Your Favorite Hymn” sometimes it’s a favorite hymn or something that we’re singing in choir, but it is most effective.

    Hum... still rambling. Just one last thing, always sing. Even to yourself. Keep those songs going around in your head through the day and you will always feel closer to

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    Thank you, Kathi-Ann so much for that :) I really enjoyed it. I appreciate it :)
    Please visit Kathi-Ann's blogs at http://www.dothisinremembranceofme.wordpress.com/ and http://www.studentmamacook.wordpress.com/
    (Linked with Women Living Well Wednesday )